1.2 VAVANYA UKUQONDA KWAKHO Ufuna ukumkhulisa njani umntwana wakho? 0 Into yokuqala kwaye eyona ibalulekileyo ukwazi malunga nokukhulisa abantwana bakho yindlela yokuqeqesha ngaphandle kokubaphula (ukubenzakalisa ngokweemvakalelo ukuze baphelelwe lithemba okanye ukuzithemba). Ufuna ukukhulisa umntwana wakho ngendlela yokuba akwazi ukuzikhathalela kwaye akufuneki ukuba ulawule rhoqo. Ukuziphatha kwakhe okuhle, impilo yakhe kunye nokonwaba kwakhe kuxhomekeke kuwe ekwenzeni oku ngokuchanekileyo. Into yokuqala kwaye eyona ibalulekileyo ukwazi malunga nokukhulisa abantwana bakho yindlela yokuqeqesha ngaphandle kokubaphula (ukubenzakalisa ngokweemvakalelo ukuze baphelelwe lithemba okanye ukuzithemba). Ufuna ukukhulisa umntwana wakho ngendlela yokuba akwazi ukuzikhathalela kwaye akufuneki ukuba ulawule rhoqo. Ukuziphatha kwakhe okuhle, impilo yakhe kunye nokonwaba kwakhe kuxhomekeke kuwe ekwenzeni oku ngokuchanekileyo. /xh-ZA/tools-for-life/children/steps/how-to-live-with-children.html#answer-1 Uhlala Kanjani Nabantwana Mkhulise ngendlela yokuba akwazi ukuzikhathalela kwaye kunga funeki ukuba umlawule rhoqo. Umlawule ngocinezelelo kwaye ungamvumeli ukuba abaleke nantoni na. Mthumele kwisikolo apho efunda ukuba phantsi kolawulo rhoqo. Myeke umntwana aqhubeke enze nantoni na ayithandayo nangaliphi na ixesha. Umntwana unelungelo kwi self-determinism yakhe. 0 Wonke umntwana unelungelo kwi self-determinism yakhe. Wonke umntwana unelungelo kwi self-determinism yakhe. /xh-ZA/tools-for-life/children/steps/how-to-live-with-children.html#answer-2 Uhlala Kanjani Nabantwana Inyani Ubuxoki Kungenzeka ntoni nje xa umqeqesha kwaye umlawula umntwana kwaye uqhubekea ukumlawula? 1,3 Ke ukuba uzama ukuqeqesha nokulawula umntwana, uya kuphulukana nothando lwakhe. Kwaye ukuba uyaqhubeka nokulawula kwaye uqeqesha umntwana wakho, unhagqibela ulahlekelwa ngumntwana ngonaphakade. Ke ukuba uzama ukuqeqesha nokulawula umntwana, uya kuphulukana nothando lwakhe. Kwaye ukuba uyaqhubeka nokulawula kwaye uqeqesha umntwana wakho, unhagqibela ulahlekelwa ngumntwana ngonaphakade. /xh-ZA/tools-for-life/children/steps/how-to-live-with-children.html#answer-3 Uhlala Kanjani Nabantwana Uya kufunda ukuba yintoni ulawulo kwaye aqeqesheke lula. Uya kuphulukana nothando lwakhe. Uya kuba nomntwana othobelayo. Ungaphela uphulukana nomntwana ngonaphakade. Indlela yokufumana igalelo kumntwana wakho kukwenza eyiphi kwezi zinto zilandelayo? 3 Ke kufuneka uvumele umntwana wakho ukuba abe negalelo kuwe. Kodwa awukwazi ukumyalela ukuba abe negalelo. Awunakho ukumyalela ukuba achebe ingca kwaye ubize oku ngo mnikelo wakhe. Kufanele azibonele ngokwakhe ukuba yintoni igalelo lakhe aze ke alinike. Ukuba wenziwe ukuba enze into ukuze abe negalelo, akayikhethanga ngokwakhe kwaye ayiyo yakhe. Ukuxelelwa uba kumele enze ntoni ukuba abe negalelo kubonakala kuye njengolawulo olungakumbi oluphuma kuwe. Ke kufuneka uvumele umntwana wakho ukuba abe negalelo kuwe. Kodwa awukwazi ukumyalela ukuba abe negalelo. Awunakho ukumyalela ukuba achebe ingca kwaye ubize oku ngo mnikelo wakhe. Kufanele azibonele ngokwakhe ukuba yintoni igalelo lakhe aze ke alinike. Ukuba wenziwe ukuba enze into ukuze abe negalelo, akayikhethanga ngokwakhe kwaye ayiyo yakhe. Ukuxelelwa uba kumele enze ntoni ukuba abe negalelo kubonakala kuye njengolawulo olungakumbi oluphuma kuwe. /xh-ZA/tools-for-life/children/steps/how-to-live-with-children.html#answer-4 Uhlala Kanjani Nabantwana Umyalele ukuba enze into ethile ukuba abe negalelo kuwe. Ukuxelela umntwana ukuba aphumele ngaphandle ayodlala edakeni njengegalelo lakhe. Umxelele ukuba awufuni igalelo lakhe. Myeke azibonele ngokwakhe ukuba yintoni igalelo lakhe aze amkele loo mgalelo. Qhubeka Qaphela: Ukuze uqhubeke, kufuneka ugcwalise onke amanyathelo angaphambili kule khosi. Inyathelo lakho lokugqibela elingaphelelanga ngu Buyela emva kwinqanaba lam lokugqibela QAPHELA: Uneempendulo ezininzi ebezingachanekanga. Ukuze uqhubeke, kuya kufuneka ufunde kwakhona inqaku Uhlala Kanjani Nabantwana Kwaye uvavanye ukuqonda kwakho kwakhona. Buyela emva ufunde inqaku kwakhona
