Kwi Scientology, esona sizathu siyinyani sifunyenwe sokuhamba ngequbuliso nangokungaxelwanga kwimisebenzi, kwiintsapho, kwiindawo nakwiindawo. Oku kuhamba kubizwa ngokuba yi blow-offs.

Le yenye yezinto umntu awayecinga ukuba uyazi ngazo kwaye ngenxa yoko akazange azikhangele. Kodwa oku kwamnika eyona ngxaki. Umntu waziva ukuba zonke zichaziwe, kodwa iinkcazo zakhe azange zinciphise isixa sengxaki eziye zivela kwimvakalelo yokuba “ahambe.”

Umzekelo, uMntu ukuphambana oku ngexabiso eliphezulu loqhawulo mtshato, malunga i job turnover ephezulu kwimizi-mveliso kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi ezibangelwa kukusuka ngequbuliso okanye okungachazwanga.

Sibona umntu onomsebenzi olungileyo, onokuthi angazukufumana ngcono, athathe isigqibo sokuhamba ahambe. Sibona umfazi, onomyeni nosapho olungileyo, eshiya konke. Okanye umyeni, onomfazi olunge ngokupheleleyo, ukwahlukana naye kwaye ahambe ngaphandle kwesizathu esivakalayo.

Umntu wazicacisa ngokwakhe esithi zininzi izinto ezimbi ezenziweyo kuye kwaye akasenako ukuba anyamezele ukubandezeleka okunje, ke kufuneke ahambe. Kodwa ukuba yinyani, yonke into enguMntu kuya kufuneka ukuba yenze iimeko zomsebenzi, imitshato, imisebenzi, iinkqubo zoqeqesho njalo njalo kakuhle kakhulu kwaye ingxaki iya kusonjululwa. Nangona kunjalo, ukujongwa okukuko kweemeko zokusebenza kunye nemitshato kubonisa ukuba ukuphuculwa kweemeko kuhlala kunyusa inani lee blow-offs.

Ungabaphatha kakuhle abantu kangangokuba bade baneentloni (besazi ukuba abafuni), ke baziva kufanele ukuba bahambe. Kwelinye icala, unokubaphatha kakubi abantu kangangokuba bangabi nakukhetha ukuhamba. Kodwa ukuphatha abantu ngokulunge kakhulu okanye kubi kangangokuba kuye kunyanzeleke ukuba bahambe akukaphenduli ukuba kutheni abantu abaninzi beshiya umsebenzi okanye umtshato wabo. Umzekelo, umfazi wenza konke okusemandleni akhe ukuba enze umtshato kwaye umyeni ngequbuliso uyabhadula esiya kuba nomnye umfazi. Okanye umphathi uzama ukuqhuba ishishini liqhuba kwaye umsebenzi eshiya nje engakhange atsho ngesizathu sokuba emke. Olu hambo lungachazwanga luyayonakalisa imibutho kunye nobomi kwaye lixesha lokuba siziqonde.

ABANTU BAYASHIYA NGENXA YE OVERTS KUNYE NEE WITHHOLDS ZABO.

Kuyinyani oko. Indoda enentliziyo ecocekileyo—eyaziyo ukuba yenze izinto ezilungileyo kwaye inyanisekile—ayinokwenzakaliswa. Umntu othi izinto ezimbi zenziwe kuye- aze emke emtshatweni wakhe okanye emsebenzini uhamba ngenxa ye overts kunye nee withholds zakhe. Akunamsebenzi nokuba umntu lowo usuka kusapho, umtshato, idolophu okanye umsebenzi. Unobangela uyafana—ii overt kunye nee withhold.

Phantse wonke umntu unokuyisombulula ingxaki okanye alungise indawo embi ukuba ufuna njalo. Kodwa xa umntu engasafuni ukulungisa, zi overt acts kunye nee withholds ezikwathoba ukubanako kwakhe ukwenza nto malunga naloo nto, yenze ukushiya kubonakale njengempendulo ekuphela kwayo. Ukwenza izizathu zokunduluka kwakhe, umntu oshiya amaphupha kwizinto ezenziwa kuye. Ukwenza ii overt yakhe ibonakale incinci, uya kuthetha izinto ezimbi ngabo bantu wenzakeleyo.

Xa umntu esongela ukushiya idolophu, umtshato, umsebenzi okanye inkqubo yoqeqesho, eyona nto ilungileyo anokuyenza kukumenza athethe ngokungafihlisiyo nge overts kunye nee withholds zakhe. Kungenjalo loo mntu ugqibela ngokuhamba, ebonakala ngathi ubonakele, kodwa eneneni, uziva kakubi ngesiqu sakhe nangezenzo zakhe.

Kuyamangalisa ukuba ii overt ezincinci, ezingabalulekanga zingenza umntu ashiye ngesaquphe.

Xa umntu ekholelwa ukuba akanakuyeka ukwenzakalisa umntu amncedileyo, uya kumkhusela loo mntu ngokuthi ahambe. Esi sesona sizathu se blow-off. Ke ukuba ubunokuphucula imeko yokusebenza yomntu, uya kwenza ii overt zakhe zibonakale ukubonakala kakubi kuye, oko kuya kuba kokuqinisekileyo ngakumbi ukuba uya kuhamba.

Impendulo kule ngxaki kukusebenzisa iinkqubo ze Scientology ukuze umntu akwazi ukuya kwinqanaba eliphezulu loxanduva apho anokuthatha khona umsebenzi awenze out kuzo zonke izimvo ezingathandekiyo zika “Ndizakutsho usenza izinto uku ndiyeke, ndikushiye kuzo zonke izinto ezimbi endizenzayo kuwe.”

Injalo indlela kwaye ngoku ukuba sisazi isiseko sale ngxaki, kukho into esingayenza ngayo.