Yonke imitshato eyonwabileyo inento enye efanayo: inqanaba eliphezulu lo nxibelelwano phakathi kwamaqabane omtshato.

Ukuba ubudlelwane buqala ukuhla, amaqabane anokuchaza ii overt kunye nee withholds abanazo omnye komnye kwaye oko kuyanceda ukubuyisela umtshato kwakhona. Ekuqaleni, ezinye izinto ezikhathazayo zinokwenzeka njengoko amaqabane omtshato esabelana ngee overt kunye nee withholds, kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kunceda ukulungisa umtshato kwaye uphinde uhlangane kwakhona.

Awukho umtshato onokuqhubeka ubekhona ngaphandle lungekho unxibelelwano two-way. Unxibelelwano two-way luthetha ukuba unxibelelwano luhamba ngomntu luye komnye—lithetha ukuthi lisuka kuBill luye kuMary—kwaye olunye unxibelelwano luhamba ukusuka kuMariya ukuya kuBill. Unxibelelwano luhamba nge two ways kwaye hayi ukusuka kuBill ukuya kuMary ngalo lonke ixesha.

Unxibelelwano two-way emtshatweni alunakubakho ngaphandle kokuba umtshato uqhubeke ukuba postulated ubekho ngawo omabini amaqabane. Ukuba uyazenza ezi zinto—qhubeka postulate umtshato wakho kwaye ugcine unxibelelwano two-way—uya kuba nomtshato.

Umtshato, xa, unokubeka ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu ababini ngaphandle kwee overt acts kunye nee withholds, postulating ukuba ubekhona nokuwugcina ndawonye ngokuqhubeka ukhusela amalungu kunye nelo qela.

Lulungiselelo olulula kakhulu, eneneni, kwaye olwanelisa kakhulu ulungiselelo ukuba luyaqhubeka lulula.

Kwaye ukuba kukho unxibelelwano lwasimahla phakathi kwawo onke amalungu osapho, baya kuba nomanyano oluqinileyo (uthando) omnye komnye kwaye umanyano lwabo lungomelela ngokwaneleyo ukuze babe nakho ukuphatha izinto ezinzima eziza ngendlela yabo kwaye zisenzeka ebomini, njengelinye ilungu losapho lakugula okanye imoto eyaphukileyo okanye isikhukhula esonakalisa indlu. Babaliqela elinxibelelanayo kwaye linokujongana ngokulula nezinto ezizayo ebomini ezinokuthi ziphazamise usapho.

Xa usapho lungeloqela elidityaniswe ngokuqinileyo nonxibelelwano, kunzima kakhulu kwilungu elinye ukuphatha into efana nengozi eyedwa. Ngoncedo losapho njengeqela, uyakwazi ukubuphatha ubomi. Abantu banethuba elingcono lokwenza izinto njengenxalenye yeqela losapho kuna xa besenza bodwa. Leyo yenye yeembono ezisisiseko apho umtshato usekwe khona.

Umzekelo, umntwana omncinci ebengenakwenza nto ngokwakhe eyedwa emhlabeni—kwaye ngenxa yoko, akukho namnye kuthi obenokwenza nto ukuba bekungazange kube ngenxa yosapho lwethu. Usapho yenye yezinto ekufuneka ubenayo ukuze udale isizukulwana esizayo.

Ngokugcina umtshato postulated, ugcine unxibelelwano two-way kunye namalungu osapho kwaye kungabinazinto zii overt kunye nee withholds phakathi kwamaqabane omtshato, ungaba nomtshato owonwabisayo kangangoko unqwena.