1.2 HLOLA UKUQONDA KWAKHO Ngabe ufuna ukukhulisa ingane yakho ngayiphi indlela? 0 Into yokuqala futhi ebaluleke kunazo zonke ukwazi ukukhulisa izingane zakho ukuthi ungaziqeqesha kanjani ngaphandle kokubaphula (ukubalimaza ngokwemizwa ukuze balahlekelwe yithemba noma ukuzethemba). Ufuna ukukhulisa ingane yakho ngendlela yokuthi ikwazi ukuzinakekela futhi akumele uyilawule njalo. Ukuziphatha kwakhe okuhle, impilo yakhe kanye nenjabulo yakhe kuncike kuwe ekwenzeni lokhu ngokufanele. Into yokuqala futhi ebaluleke kunazo zonke ukwazi ukukhulisa izingane zakho ukuthi ungaziqeqesha kanjani ngaphandle kokubaphula (ukubalimaza ngokwemizwa ukuze balahlekelwe yithemba noma ukuzethemba). Ufuna ukukhulisa ingane yakho ngendlela yokuthi ikwazi ukuzinakekela futhi akumele uyilawule njalo. Ukuziphatha kwakhe okuhle, impilo yakhe kanye nenjabulo yakhe kuncike kuwe ekwenzeni lokhu ngokufanele. /zu-ZA/tools-for-life/children/steps/how-to-live-with-children.html#answer-1 Ungaphila Kanjani Nezingane Mkhulise ngendlela yokuthi azinakekele futhi akudingeki ukuthi umlawule njalo. Mlawule ngokuqinile futhi ungamvumeli ukuba abalekele noma yini. Mthumele esikoleni lapho afunda ukuba ngaphansi kokulawulwa njalo. Vumela ingane iqhubeke futhi yenze noma yini ethanda yona nganoma isiphi isikhathi. Ingane inelungelo le-self-determinism. 0 Zonke izingane zinelungelo le-self-determinism. Zonke izingane zinelungelo le-self-determinism. /zu-ZA/tools-for-life/children/steps/how-to-live-with-children.html#answer-2 Ungaphila Kanjani Nezingane Iqiniso Amanga Yini engenzeka uma nje uqeqesha futhi ulawula ingane futhi uqhubeke uyilawula? 1,3 Ngakho-ke uma uzama nje ukuqeqesha nokulawula ingane, uzolahlekelwa uthando lwayo. Futhi uma uqhubeka nokulawula nokuqeqesha ingane yakho, ungagcina ulahlekelwe yingane unomphela. Ngakho-ke uma uzama nje ukuqeqesha nokulawula ingane, uzolahlekelwa uthando lwayo. Futhi uma uqhubeka nokulawula nokuqeqesha ingane yakho, ungagcina ulahlekelwe yingane unomphela. /zu-ZA/tools-for-life/children/steps/how-to-live-with-children.html#answer-3 Ungaphila Kanjani Nezingane Uzofunda ukuthi yini ukulawula futhi kube lula ukuyiqeqesha. Uzolahlekelwa uthando lwakhe. Uzoba nengane elalelayo. Ungagcina ulahlekelwe yingane unomphela. Indlela yokuthola umnikelo enganeni yakho ukwenza okuyikuphi kulokhu okulandelayo? 3 Ngakho-ke kufanele uvumele ingane yakho ukuthi ikuxhase nawe. Kepha awukwazi ukumyalela ukuthi afake isandla. Awukwazi ukumyalela ukuthi agunde utshani ubize lokho umnikelo wakhe. Kufanele azitholele ngokwakhe ukuthi uyini umnikelo wakhe bese uwamukele. Uma enziwa ukuthi enze okuthile ukufaka isandla, akazikhethelanga yena uqobo futhi akukhona okwakhe. Ukutshelwa okufanele akwenze ukufaka isandla kubonakala kuye njengokulawula okuningi okuvela kuwe. Ngakho-ke kufanele uvumele ingane yakho ukuthi ikuxhase nawe. Kepha awukwazi ukumyalela ukuthi afake isandla. Awukwazi ukumyalela ukuthi agunde utshani ubize lokho umnikelo wakhe. Kufanele azitholele ngokwakhe ukuthi uyini umnikelo wakhe bese uwamukele. Uma enziwa ukuthi enze okuthile ukufaka isandla, akazikhethelanga yena uqobo futhi akukhona okwakhe. Ukutshelwa okufanele akwenze ukufaka isandla kubonakala kuye njengokulawula okuningi okuvela kuwe. /zu-ZA/tools-for-life/children/steps/how-to-live-with-children.html#answer-4 Ungaphila Kanjani Nezingane Yiyalele ukuba yenze okuthile okuqondile ukufaka isandla kuwe. Tshela ingane ukuthi iphumele ngaphandle idlale odakeni njengomnikelo wayo. Mtshele ukuthi awufuni umnikelo wakhe. Myeke athole ngokwakhe ukuthi uyini umnikelo wakhe bese wamukela lowo mnikelo. Qhubeka QAPHELA: Ukuze uqhubeke, kufanele uqedele zonke izinyathelo zangaphambilini kule isifundo. Isinyathelo sakho sokugcina esingaphelele ngu Buyela emuva esinyathelweni sami sokugcina QAPHELA: Unezimpendulo eziningana ebezingalungile. Ukuze uqhubeke, kufanele uphinde ufunde indatshana Ungaphila Kanjani Nezingane bese uhlola ukuqonda kwakho futhi. Buyela emuva ufunde indatshana futhi
