Into yokuqala futhi ebaluleke kunazo zonke ukwazi ukukhulisa izingane zakho ukuthi ungaziqeqesha kanjani ngaphandle kokubaphula (ukubalimaza ngokwemizwa ukuze balahlekelwe yithemba noma ukuzethemba). Ufuna ukukhulisa ingane yakho ngendlela yokuthi ikwazi ukuzinakekela futhi akumele uyilawule njalo. Ukuziphatha kwakhe okuhle, impilo yakhe kanye nenjabulo yakhe kuncike kuwe ekwenzeni lokhu ngokufanele.
Into yokuqala futhi ebaluleke kunazo zonke ukwazi ukukhulisa izingane zakho ukuthi ungaziqeqesha kanjani ngaphandle kokubaphula (ukubalimaza ngokwemizwa ukuze balahlekelwe yithemba noma ukuzethemba). Ufuna ukukhulisa ingane yakho ngendlela yokuthi ikwazi ukuzinakekela futhi akumele uyilawule njalo. Ukuziphatha kwakhe okuhle, impilo yakhe kanye nenjabulo yakhe kuncike kuwe ekwenzeni lokhu ngokufanele.
Zonke izingane zinelungelo le-
Zonke izingane zinelungelo le-
Ngakho-ke kufanele uvumele ingane yakho ukuthi ikuxhase nawe. Kepha awukwazi ukumyalela ukuthi afake isandla. Awukwazi ukumyalela ukuthi agunde utshani ubize lokho umnikelo wakhe. Kufanele azitholele ngokwakhe ukuthi uyini umnikelo wakhe bese uwamukele. Uma enziwa ukuthi enze okuthile ukufaka isandla, akazikhethelanga yena uqobo futhi akukhona okwakhe. Ukutshelwa okufanele akwenze ukufaka isandla kubonakala kuye njengokulawula okuningi okuvela kuwe.
Ngakho-ke kufanele uvumele ingane yakho ukuthi ikuxhase nawe. Kepha awukwazi ukumyalela ukuthi afake isandla. Awukwazi ukumyalela ukuthi agunde utshani ubize lokho umnikelo wakhe. Kufanele azitholele ngokwakhe ukuthi uyini umnikelo wakhe bese uwamukele. Uma enziwa ukuthi enze okuthile ukufaka isandla, akazikhethelanga yena uqobo futhi akukhona okwakhe. Ukutshelwa okufanele akwenze ukufaka isandla kubonakala kuye njengokulawula okuningi okuvela kuwe.