Yonke imishado ejabulisayo inento eyodwa efanayo: izinga eliphakeme ukuxhumana phakathi kwabalingani bomshado.

Uma ubudlelwano buqala ukuwohloka, abalingani bangadalula ama-overts nama-withholds kwalokho ababebambe ngakho futhi kuzosiza ukubuyisela umshado futhi. Ekuqaleni, ezinye izinto ezisolisayo zingavela njengoba abalingani bomshado babelana ama-overts nama-withholds kodwa ngokuhamba kwe isikhathi, kuzosiza ukulungisa umshado futhi kubuye kuhlanganiswe futhi.

Awukho umshado ongaqhubeka ubakhona ngaphandle kwe i-two-way comm. I-two-way comm. kusho ukuthi ukuxhumana kusuka komunye umuntu kuye komunye—ukusho ku-Bill kuya ku-Mary—bese kuthi okunye ukuxhumana kusuke ku-Mary kuye ku-Bill. Ukuxhumana kuhamba ngezindlela ezimbili hhayi nje ukusuka ku-Bill kuya ku-Mary ngaso sonke isikhathi.

I-two-way comm. emshadweni ngeke zibe khona ngaphandle kokuthi umshado uqhubeke uboniswa bobabili abashadikazi. Uma wenza lezi zinto—qhubeka uku postuletha umshado futhi ugcine i-two-way comm. uzoba nomshado.

Umshado-ke uzoba wukuhlanganisa ubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu ababili ngaphandle ama-overt acts nama-withholds, ukububeka emuva futhi kukugcine ndawonye ukuze kuvikelwe amalungu nalelo qembu.

Kuyilungiselelo elilula kakhulu, empeleni, futhi ilungiselelo le-eligculisa kakhulu uma liqhubeka nokuba lula.

Futhi uma kukhona ukuxhumana kwamahhala phakathi kwawo wonke amalungu omndeni, bayoba nokusondelana obuqinile (nothando) komunye nomunye futhi ukusondelana babo bungaba namandla ngokwanele ukuba bakwazi ukuphatha izinto ezinzima ezizayo futhi zenzeke empilweni, njengokuthi elinye lamalungu omndeni ligule noma imoto igqekeze noma isikhukhula ngokuzumayo elimaze indlu. Bayiqembu elisekuxhumaneni futhi elingakwazi ukubhekana kalula nezinto eza empilweni ezingaphazamisa umndeni.

Lapho umndeni ungelona iqembu elihlanganiswe ngokuqinile ngokuxhumana, kunzima kakhulu ukuthi ilungu elilodwa liphathe into efana nengozi lodwa. Ngosizo lomndeni njenge qembu, uyakwazi ukuphatha impilo. Abantu banethuba elingcono lokulenza njengengxenye ye qembu lomndeni kunokuba benza bodwa. Futhi lowo ngomunye wemibono eyisisekelo osekelwe kuwo umshado.

Isibonelo, ingane encane ibingeke ikwazi ukuzenzela emhlabeni iyodwa—futhi ngalokho, akekho noyedwa wethu obe ngayenza nhlobo ukube bekungeyona eyomndeni wethu. Umndeni ungenye yezinto okufanele ube nazo ukuze udale isizukulwane esizayo.

Ngokugcina umshado postulated, ugcine i-two-way-comm. okuhle namalungu omndeni nama-withholds ungabi nama-overts futhi ungagodli phakathi kwabalingani bomshado, ungaba nomshado ojabule kakhulu uma nje ufisa.