Ukufumana iziphumo zokuphatha iSakhono soMthombo weNgxaki (i PTS) umntu onxulumene noMntu Oxinzelelayo, kukho iinyani ezimbini ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka uziqonde kwaye uyazi ukuba ziyinyani:

1. Konke ukugula kwinqanaba elikhulu okanye elincinci kwaye zonke iimpazamo ezibangela ukungaphumeleli ziza ngqo kwaye zivela kwimeko ye PTS.

2. Ukususa le meko kufuna amanyathelo amathathu asisiseko:

a. Qonda iteknoloji yale meko. Iteknoloji ithetha iindlela zokusebenzisa ubugcisa okanye inzululwazi—yindlela yokwenza into, endaweni yokuba wazi ngobugcisa okanye inzululwazi ngokwayo.

b. Fumanisa. Fumanisa ukuba kuthetha ukufunda okanye ukufumana into.

c. Bamba okanye unqamle kuMntu Oxinzelelayo. Ukuphatha kuthetha ukujongana nengxaki, ukuze ingabisaba yingxaki kwaye ukunqumla kuthetha ukuvala ukuqhagamshelana kwaye ungabi nalo unxibelelwano nomnye umntu.

Ukuba ucelwa ukuba uphathe umntu one PTS, unokukwenza ngokulula kakhulu—ngokulula kunokuba unokukholelwa. Ukucinga ukuba kukho enye iteknoloji okanye ukuba le mithetho mibini engaphezulu ihlala ingasebenzi yinto enokukuthintela ekuphatheni umntu one PTS. Lomzuzu umntu ozama ukuphatha umntu oyi PTS eqinisekile ukuba zikho ezinye iimeko, izizathu okanye iteknoloji kunaleyo idweliswe apha ngasentla, ulahlekile kwangoko kwaye uza kuphulukana nomdlalo kwaye angafumani (ufumane) iziphumo.

Akuqhelekanga ukuba umntu we PTS abe psychotic I Psychotic kuthetha ngokwasemzimbeni nasengqondweni ukwenzakalisa kwabo bamngqongileyo. Kodwa zonke ii psychotics zi PTS, ukuba bona ngokwabo, kuthetha ukuba banokwenza into eyonakalisayo kubo.

Oogqirha kunye nabanye abasebenzi bezempilo bahlala bethetha “ngocinzelelo” olubangela ukugula. Ukusilela kweteknoloji epheleleyo, abanalo noluvo oluncinci lokuba kutheni umntu engagula okanye abe nengozi. Bacinga nje ukuba le yinyani. Bayaqonda ukuba ucinzelelo lunokuzisa izifo ezahlukeneyo kunye neengozi, kodwa abanayo iteknoloji yendlela yokujongana nayo. Sinayo.

Yintoni le ibizwa ngokuba “lucinzelelo”?

Umntu ophantsi kocinzelelo ngokwenene uphantsi koxinzelelo.

Ukuba olo xinzelelo lukhona kwaye umntu lowo uphatha okanye anqumle kumthombo woxinzelelo, ucinzelelo luyaphela kwaye isigulo anaso siba bhetele.

Ngokwesiqhelo umntu akabuqondi kakuhle ubomi ukuba aqonde okwenzekayo kuye. Udidekile. Ukholelwa ukuba zonke izigulo zakhe ziyinxalenye nje yobomi, ukuba uyagula kuba egula!

Kodwa eyona nto yenzekileyo kukuba, ngaxa lithile, kukho into eyenzekileyo eyamenza ukuba abe buthathaka, angazithembi kwaye angonwabi, kwaye loo nto yamenza wagula ngokulula.

Waxinzelelwa ngumntu waza waqalisa ukuziva engonwabanga, ebuthathaka kwaye egula. Ke, njengoko wayexinzelelwe kwakhona kwakhona, uxinzelelo oluphindaphindiweyo kwamenza ukuba agule okanye abe nengozi.

Ukuba umntu uyaqhubeka nokuqhagamshelana okanye ukunxibelelana ne SP, okanye aqhubeke esenza into ethi Umntu Oxinzelelayo okanye Iqela Loxinzelelo (kunye neqela elinokuthi kananjalo libe noxinzelelo) liphikisana, uxinzelelo alusoze luyeke kwaye uya kuqhubeka nokuba ukugula okanye ingozi. Ayisiyo tu into yokuba kwindawo ethile emenza agule kwaye abeneengozi, nguMntu Oxinzelelalyo obangela oko.

Ngethamsanqa, ingxaki ye PTS ayikho nzima kakhulu. Nje ukuba uqonde ezi nyaniso zibini zibalulekileyo zinikezwe ngasentla, kuya kufuneka uvele uzame ukuba uzisebenzise njani ukunceda umntu we PTS.

Umntu we PTS unokuncedwa ngeendlela ezintathu:

1. Qonda kwaye ufunde ukusebenzisa indlela yeteknoloji yokuphatha umntu one PTS.

2. Fumanisa ukuba ngubani oxinzelela umntu kwaye amenze i PTS.

3. Ncedisa umntu we PTS ukuba aphathe ingxaki okanye anqumle kumthombo woxinzelelo.

Makhe sijonge eyona ndlela ilula yokwenza oku:

1. Nika umntu one PTS amanqaku kumanqaku kwiSakhono soMthombo weNgxaki kunye naBantu abaxinzelelayo kule khosi. Menze ukuba afunde ukuze afunde malunga nomxholo, onjenge “PTS” yi, ukuba yintoni “uXinzelelo” nokuba umntu oyi PTS uyisingatha njani ingxaki. Umntu we PTS unokuqonda nje ngoko nangoko ukuba uxinzelelwe kwaye azive bhetele. Kwenzekile ngaphambili.

2. Ngaphandle kokutyhala kakhulu, cela umntu we PTS ukuba axoxe ngokugula, ngengozi okanye ngayo nayiphi na ingxaki anayo. Umzekelo, thatha intombazana encinci eyayifunda ukudlala ipiyano kodwa icinezelwa ngumntu. Usenokuthi sele eqala nje ukuziva ngathi akasokuze abe yi-pianist kwaye ufuna ukuyeka ukuzama, ke wayeka ukuziqhelanisa.

Umntu uya kuhlala ekholelwa ukuba ukugula, ingozi okanye ingxaki ziqale kutshanje kwaye sisiphumo sendawo ahlala kuyo okanye indawo asebenza kuyo okanye kwenye indawo ebekuyo kutsha nje. Umzekelo, intombazana ye PTS ebinengxaki yokudlala ipiyano ingathi indawo apho kuye kufuneke aziqhelanise khona ishushu kakhulu okanye ibanda kakhulu okanye ayikhululekanga ngandlela thile.

3. Buza xa umntu we PTS ekhumbula okokuqala eso sigulo okanye eneengozi ezinjalo. Uya kuthi kwangoko aqale ukucinga emva kwaye azi ukuba kwenzekile ngaphambili.

4. Ngoku ke mbuze ukuba ngubani na owayemcinezela ngelo xesha. Ngokuqhelekileyo uza kukuxelela kwangoko.

5. Uza kufumanisa ukuba ubize igama lomntu oqhagamselana naye okanye onxibelelana naye! Ke emva koko umbuza ukuba uyafuna na ukuphatha okanye ukuqhawula kulo Mntu Woxinzelelo. Ngoku, uya kubangela ukukhathazeka kakhulu kunye nengxaki ebomini bakhe ukuba unqumla ngokungumangalisayo—kuthetha ukuthi ukwenza into ngendlela enokubangela ukuba akhathazeke okanye enze abantu bothuke, njl.—ke umntu we PTS kufuneka afumane indlela yokuphatha kakuhle umba ngokutyibilikayo.

Ukuba akayiboni indlela angayenza ngayo loo nto, ungasebenza naye ukuze uqale ukuwusingatha kakuhle lo msebenzi kwaye ngobunono, kancinci kancinci. Oku kunokwenziwa ngokumxelela ukuba aphendule iposi okanye abhalele Umntu Oxinzelelayo kwaye amthumele ileta emnandi “iindlela ezilungileyo, imozulu elungileyo.” “Iindlela ezilungileyo, imozulu elungileyo” kuthetha unxibelelwano oluzolileyo, olufudumeleyo kunye nobubele. Ihlala incokola ngezinto ezilungileyo kunye nabanye abaya kuvumelana nazo, njengendlela ekwakukuhle ngayo ukuba nemvula emva kweeveki kunye neeveki zemozulu eyomileyo okanye ukubhala indlela umdlalo webhola kule mpelaveki iphelileyo ibisonwabisa kakhulu. Konke ozama ukukwenza kukuba umntu one PTS aqale enze into ukuqala ukuwuphatha ngobunono umba.

6. Emva kokuba umqalise kokuphatha ngobunono, jonga naloo mntu kwakhona kwaye uqiniseke ukuba uyayenza le nto wena naye enivumelene ukuyenza. ukuba wenza lamanyathelo eniwenze nobabini, mkhuthaze ukuba aqhubeke, uhlala usebenzisa “iindlela ezilungileyo, imozulu elungileyo” ezonxibelelwano.

Nanku omnye umzekelo wendlela umntu one PTS anokuphatha ngobunono ngayo umzali owayenoxinzelelo, endaweni yokuba kubenokuqhawuka. Ukuphatha kunokuba lula njengomntu one PTS ebhalela utata wakhe kwaye esithi, “Andikhalazi ngokuba ungumgcini (isicoci), ke ndicela ungakhalazi malunga nendlela yam yokuphila. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ndingunyana wakho kwaye ndiyakuthanda kwaye ndiyakuhlonipha. Ndiyazi ukuba uyandithanda, kodwa ndicela ufunde ukundihlonipha njengomntu okhulileyo oyaziyo into ayifunayo ebomini.” Okanye unokuthi, “Ndikubhalela, Bawo, kuba uMama uhlala endithumelela ezi ziqwenga zamaphephandaba malunga nabahlobo bam nabantu endisebenza nabo, kwaye ziyacaphukisa kum kuba ndiyazi ukuba aziyonyani. Awukwenzi oku kwaye ukuze kube kulula kum ukuba ndinibhalele.”

Into ebalulekileyo yokuqonda malunga ne PTSness kukuba unokwenza okuthile ngayo.