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1.‎2 TEST YOUR UNDERSTANDING

In what way do you want to raise your child? 0

The first and most important thing to know about raising your children is how to train them without breaking them (harming them emotionally so they lose hope or confidence). You want to raise your child in such a way that he can take care of himself and you don’t have to constantly control him. His good behavior, his health and his happiness depend on you doing this correctly.

/tools-for-life/children/steps/how-to-live-with-children.html#answer-1 How to Live With Children A child has a right to his self-determinism. 0

Every child has a right to his self-determinism.

/tools-for-life/children/steps/how-to-live-with-children.html#answer-2 How to Live With Children What can happen if you just train and control a child and keep on controlling him? 1,3 So if you try to just train and control a child, you will lose his love. And if you keep on controlling and training your child, you could end up losing the child forever. So if you try to just train and control a child, you will lose his love. And if you keep on controlling and training your child, you could end up losing the child forever. /tools-for-life/children/steps/how-to-live-with-children.html#answer-3 How to Live With Children The way to get contribution from your child is to do which of the following? 3

So you have to let your child contribute to you. But you can’t order him to contribute. You can’t order him to mow the grass and call that his contribution. He has to figure out on his own what his contribution is and then give it. If he is made to do something to contribute, he has not selected it himself and it is not his. Being told what to do to contribute is seen by him as just more control from you.

/tools-for-life/children/steps/how-to-live-with-children.html#answer-4 How to Live With Children

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